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			 Commissioner 
			joins Police to help keep Accrington revellers safe 
			LANCASHIRE'S Police and 
			Crime Commissioner will be heading out onto the streets of 
			Accrington this weekend to see first hand the work being done to 
			keep Christmas revellers safe. 
			 
			Clive Grunshaw will join officers on patrol in the town and stop by 
			the Nightsafe Haven; a special flood lit van which aims to help 
			keep the town's streets trouble free by offering partygoers a place 
			to go for free water, medical assistance and any help and support 
			they might need. 
			 
			It's been set up thanks to a partnership between Lancashire 
			Constabulary, County Council Trading Standards, Hyndburn Council's 
			Community Safety Partnership and licensed premises across the town 
			with the aim of ensuring everyone is able to enjoy their festive 
			nights out. And this Saturday the Commissioner will also get to see 
			first-hand how a new radio scheme linking the police, CCTV operators 
			and pubs and bars across Accrington is helping officers deal with 
			any trouble that does break out swiftly and effectively. 
			 
			Mr Grunshaw said:- "Ultimately all anyone wants is to be able 
			to enjoy their Christmas nights out with their friends and work 
			colleagues in an environment where they feel safe and relaxed. 
			That is why the Nightsafe Haven is so important; if people do have 
			too much to drink, find themselves separated from their friends or 
			simply need someone to talk to, there is a safe place they can go. 
			It is an initiative which has been successful in the past, and I 
			hope it is again this year. Supported by the new radio scheme; 
			which will be a vital tool for both officers and licensees; I am 
			confident Accrington will be a safe place for everyone to enjoy 
			their parties." 
			 
			The Nightsafe Haven will operate on Church Street in the town 
			between 10.30pm and 3am, every Saturday, in December, as well as 
			Friday, 19 December and Wednesday, 31 December 2014. 
			 
			Insp Pam Holgate, from Accrington Police, said:- “We want 
			everyone to have both a safe and enjoyable time this Christmas and 
			New Year, and the Nightsafe Haven is one of the methods we will be 
			using to help ensure this happens.
			We have partnered with licensed premises, Lancashire County Council Trading Standards and Hyndburn Community Safety Partnership to 
			provide the Nightsafe Haven service to ensure everyone has a happy 
			and enjoyable time. 
			The radio scheme will assist in making sure any person causing 
			problems or who has drunk too much will be followed by the CCTV 
			cameras across town. Police and Door staff will be notified of where 
			they are which will ensure they don't get into any other premises. 
			This will also enable Police officers to deal with them in a 
			positive manor and ensure that they don't spoil the evening for 
			everyone else"  
			 
			Chair of Hyndburn's Community Safety Partnership, Councillor Pam 
			Barton, said:- “We're happy to support the nightsafe haven 
			scheme, which is all about helping people get home safely after 
			enjoying the Christmas festivities in Accrington.” 
			 
			And County Councillor Janice Hanson, cabinet member for public 
			protection services, added:- "Trading Standards work with 
			managers of pubs and clubs to ensure their staff are well equipped 
			to serve alcohol responsibly and refuse underage sales. 
			Well managed venues can make a real difference to everyone's safety 
			and the health and prosperity of the night-time economy. We'll be 
			making additional resources available to ensure our Check 25 County 
			campaign is endorsed by all licensed premises in Accrington town 
			centre all year round." 
			 
			As part of the preparations for the Christmas and New Year period, 
			Accrington Police and Trading Standards will also be visiting every 
			licensed premise within the town centre. 
			 
			Plain clothes officers will also be patrolling the town centre's 
			pubs, bars and clubs to identify and deal with trouble before it 
			escalates. 
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			 Family time tops 
			Christmas lists in the North of England 
			ARGUMENT free family time 
			comes top of most people in the North of England's Christmas list 
			this year, reveals a survey released by leading relationships 
			charity Relate Cheshire & Merseyside. With Christmas fast 
			approaching, 91% of people in the North of England asked by YouGov 
			said that spending time with immediate family was important to them 
			for a happy Christmas (respondents were given a list of options to 
			choose from). Interestingly, 84% of people also rated avoiding 
			family arguments as important.  
			 
			The survey of over 400 people aged 16 and over also showed that 
			people seem to prioritise their closest family members during the 
			festive season, with 57% of those asked rating spending time with 
			extended family as important. 
			 
			In fact, of the options listed, the only thing less important than 
			spending time with extended family was receiving the right gifts; 
			with 25% of people saying this was important for a happy Christmas. 
			And when it comes to gifts, it seems giving is better than 
			receiving, as 77% of people in the North of England said getting the 
			right gifts for others was fairly or very important for a happy 
			Christmas.  
			 
			When asked what they were worried about this Christmas, the top 
			answer was the cost of the celebrations (42%).  
			 
			The 2nd biggest worries at Christmas were not having enough time 
			to prepare and having family arguments (20% each) Cooking and 
			hosting Christmas, however, seems to be a walk in the park for many, 
			with 10% saying they were fairly or very worried about hosting and 
			7% saying they were worried about cooking.  
			 
			Relate Counsellor Susie Woods said:- “Christmas can be a great 
			chance to spend time with loved ones, but it can also be really 
			stressful. High expectations, money worries and family tensions can 
			put a real strain on celebrations. It can seem impossible to please 
			everyone and sometimes the family home can feel like a simmering pot 
			just waiting to boil over. 
			But simple techniques like thinking about what you want to say 
			before voicing any concerns can really help to cool things down. And 
			some frustrations or arguments can be headed off before they ever 
			happen by making sure that everyone gets a chance to air hopes and 
			worries before the season gets into full swing. So get talking now!” 
			 
			The poll also suggests that not everyone has a network of people to 
			share celebrations with: 14% of people in the North of England are 
			concerned about feeling lonely this Christmas. Susie continued:- 
			“Whilst it may seem like a struggle to include extended family 
			and friends in your celebrations, you might be able to make a huge 
			difference to someone who's feeling lonely at this time of year.” 
			
			 
			
			Here are Relate Cheshire & Merseyside's 5 
			top tips for ensuring everyone has a happier Christmas:- 
			 
			► Start talking early. Encourage everyone to be honest about their 
			festive hopes and fears. 
			 
			► Don't overpromise. If something is impractical, or too expensive, 
			it's OK to explain why it can't happen.  
			 
			► Try to compromise. For example, your partner might want to spend a 
			cosy Christmas alone together, whereas you might want to be with 
			your wider family. Compromise by waking up together and having a 
			special breakfast before joining the family for Christmas dinner.
			 
			 
			► It's OK to say 'no'. If someone's wishes can't be accommodated, 
			explain why and see if it's possible to do something similar at a 
			later date.  
			 
			► Enjoy yourself! Take a step back and try not to get too bogged 
			down in the organisation. 
			 
			Relate Cheshire & Merseyside offers information, advice and 
			counselling for all relationships, including family counselling. 
			Call:- 0300 330 5793 or visit:- 
			
			relatecm.org.uk for more 
			information on how Relate Cheshire & Merseyside can support you and 
			your family this Christmas.  |